dimanche 28 juillet 2013

A Little List

I still have some catching up to do, but I thought I'd take a break from recapping to make a couple lists: 

The First, Things I Really Miss About America: (But let me clarify.....even though there are quite a few things about home that I miss, it does not mean, in any way, that I do not thoroughly enjoy Montpellier/France/Europe. It is simply that while away for an extended period of time, one begins to realize certain things that they truly enjoy that they may have taken for granted).
  • My Family
  • My Family, still
  • My really close friends who have spent enough time with me to really understand me--I love Camille, Hugo, Marion, Fred, Josephine, and Adeline so much and they are wonderful people. In fact, I don't know many people that are more similar to me than Camille and I am certain to miss her A TON! But overall, sometimes the "getting to know you" game gets exhausting and I start to miss the people who already know the majority of things about me because sometimes it is easier to just "be" around them. I hate sounding like I don't appreciate making new friends, because I absolutely love it, but after two months, I start to long for the ease that comes with being around the people you've known for years. Hopefully this makes sense and doesn't sound rude or ungrateful.
  • My Bed-the kind with a real mattress, a fitted sheet that isn't torn, sheets on the bed instead of just a duvet that can't be used because it's too hot, and real pillows....I really miss pillows. 
  • Air Conditioning--especially at night when, even without any sheets/duvets on me and while laying perfectly still with the sliding door and the window in my room all the way open, I am still sweating profusely
  • A shower with a shower head that is attached to the wall and doesn't have to be held.
  • ICE. Oh how I miss iced drinks. Mom, if you're reading....an iced coffee at the airport will be warmly welcomed...
  • BIG cups of coffee--although the little espresso cups here are quite cute and adorable...I prefer large doses of caffeine in a giant coffee cup. The little doll cups are starting to get old :)
  • Mexican food (real, authentic Mexican food; i.e. Mariachis, Dos Gorditos, Carisillos, Senor Iguanas, Qdoba). The other night at the wine festival, we ordered Fajitas from a "Latin American Food" stand.....it just made me miss the chips, salsa, and outlandishly huge burritos from home even more.
  • A large assortment of spices to cook with. I prefer to cook with more than just salt, pepper, cumin, cinnamon, and "mexican spice", but those are my only options at the moment. 
  • A clean bedroom floor. The floor to my bedroom is carpeting (partially with carpet and partially with pine needles and leaves from outside and hair). The vacuum is broken, so there is no way to clean it and I have to leave the windows and doors open to get some air circulating, but neither has a screen, so it's kind of like living in a tree house here. Let's just say, it will be nice when I can walk barefoot through my bedroom :)
  • Did I mention I miss my family??
Now, For Things I Already Know I will Miss About Montpellier:
  • Camille--It took no time at all for us to become best friends. And yes, I would group her in my best friend category. Not only do we have very similar taste in men (obviously essential), but we have very similar personalities which allows us to get along quite well...surprisingly enough. She is so caring and reliable and she puts so much effort into making sure that my time here is fun-filled and enjoyable and for that, I am so grateful. She has a really good sense of humor, she is independent and motivated, she is stubborn but in a good way, and best of all she is extremely friendly and extraordinarily dependable. She, Hugo, and I have been spending quite a bit of time together (working in lab, eating lunch, having coffee, going shopping, going to the beach, etc) and with each day I grow more and more fond of the two of them. I think a very large part of me is going to be very lonely whenever I have to leave.
  • The environment of the lab group--I know that it is very rare for a lab group to get along this well, but Fred, Marion, Hugo, Camille, and I are like a little (slightly crazy and dysfunctional) family. We would be perfect for a T.V. series I do believe. In fact, it's our little joke that one must be at minimum slightly abnormal or crazy to fit into our lab group...it's what makes us such good scientists. It's nice to have such a feeling of belonging in my "work place" (however temporary it may be). I know they are probably a bit friendlier to me since I am a "visitor", but I can tell that even among themselves, they are close and all concerned for the others' well-being (in and out side of work).
  • Claire and Peter--I sort of view them as grandparents now. I will miss Peter offering me a cup of tea and asking me how work was everyday when I get home, and Claire bidding me a "good sleep" every night as I climb the stairs to bed. I will certainly miss the times I spend cooking with them on the weekend, Peter's loud, boisterous singing, and Claire attempting to teach Peter French with French songs and telling him "good job" even when what he says is completely unintelligible. I will miss eating dinner outside on the little stone patio at the big wooden table with a lamp for light. I'll miss the jazz concerts and the music playing over the stereo in the house when Claire is preparing dinner. I'll miss Peter's stories and Claire's gut laugh when Peter tells one that is clearly not true. I'll miss this "home"
  • The Pastries--every single last one of them because every single one of them is delicious and delectable and to die for.
  • The Bread--for the same reasons as the pastries
  • The short distance I have to cover to get to the Grocery store, the Bakery, the bus stop, work, etc. I'll miss being able to walk to everything that I need.
  • Public Transportation
  • The Beach-ohhh the beach.
  • Being So Close to Paris
  • Paris
  • The Gigantic Cheese Aisle at the Grocery Stores
  • The Lunches at Work--which are so cheap and almost always delicious
  • Coffee Breaks with Camille and Hugo--sitting outside around the fountain sipping our coffee after lunch is one of the most relaxing and enjoyable parts of everyday
So, in all....no matter where I am, I'll always be missing something or someone that is somewhere else. But, no matter where I am, I will also have so much to be happy about.  

"As the traveler who has once been from home is wiser than he who has never left his own doorstep, so a knowledge of one other culture should sharpen our ability to scrutinize more steadily, to appreciate more lovingly, our own." -Margaret Mead

“Vienna Waits for You”



“You've got your passion, you've got your pride
But don't you know that only fools are satisfied?
Dream on, but don't imagine they'll all come true
When will you realize, Vienna waits for you?”
–‘Vienna’ by Billy Joel (One of my all-time favorite Billy Joel songs)

So, I could recap every little detail of Vienna, but I’ve chosen for both my sake and yours to just recap the highlights of the trip, so here goes:

·         Our apartment was in the suburbs of Vienna (two tram lines away from the city center to be exact) in a somewhat “sketchy” area that didn’t make me feel super comfortable, but we never had any issues. Plus, there were three locks and a deadbolt on our apartment door…which made me feel safe…and not so safe at the same time. 

·         Our days usually started around noon…my day usually started around 9 or 10, but Josephine and Adeline could win awards for how long they can sleep! We would wake up, drink some coffee while watching some T.V. show on Adeline’s computer, take turns showering/using the bathroom while the others either got dressed or began making lunch which was basically tuna, cheese, and tomatoes in different forms every day…sometimes we threw in some bread or eggs to mix it up a bit. Yes, the food got very old, but since I didn’t know what anything in the supermarket was, and Josephine and Adeline usually planned our meals in quickly spoken French, I succumbed to basically going along with whatever was provided. It was better than sardines or something like that, so I didn’t complain. Funny story about the grocery shopping (at least, it’s funny now): the first day in Vienna, we went out in search of a grocery store which the lady leasing us the apartment had said was “right around the corner.” I’m not sure which corner she was referring to, but we walked for over an hour looking for a grocery with no luck. Finally in one last-ditch effort, we turned a corner (one that was very far from the apartment) and…voila…a grocery store! I swear angels started singing. We were all exhausted, thirsty, hot, and starving, so this grocery store bore a strong resemblance to what people say heaven is like. The not so funny part was that on the walk back to the apartment (when we managed to get lost three times within three blocks of the apartment) we passed at least three other grocery stores. I still have no idea how we managed to miss all of them when we first set out, but we made sure not to do the same during our next trips to the store. 

·         After lunch we would head into town or somewhere around town to see different historical monuments and whatnot. We would walk and walk and walk…sometimes we knew where we were heading, but more often than not, we would walk with the hopes of something that appeared, as Josephine would say, “Really big, and really pretty, so probably famous.” 

·         When we would start to get a bit hungry, we would stop at a little café or bakery (of which Vienna has more than a surplus) and try a piece of cake. Josephine would eat a Sachertorte (a really, really chocolately cake) almost every time because they originated in Vienna and apparently taste much better in Vienna. I tried one the first day and it was definitely delicious, but there were so many other very appealing cakes in all of the bakeries too, so I tried a different one every day. 

·         Around 5 or 6 every day, we would all be exhausted with aching feet from all the walking we had done, and would return to the apartment for some R&R before setting back out into town to look for a bar or club with “ambiance” as the French refer to it. What we usually found was a couple groups of young kids standing on a sidewalk in a circle talking and small groups of elderly couples sitting at different cafes and restaurants. I’ve never seen so many 60+ people out between 10 and midnight every single night. What I’ve come to conclude is that Vienna is where people who aren’t quite wealthy enough to retire in Switzerland go after retirement. Which may also explain why things tended to be a bit pricier. Anyway, we never seemed to find the environment that Josephine and Adeline were searching for (I would have been fine sitting down in any of the thousands of cafes and having a glass of wine or beer), so we usually got a gelato at this stand that had 15+ flavors and then headed back to the apartment to watch a movie or two. 

·         The castles/museums that we visited while we were there included: The Sisi Museum and the Imperial Apartments (inclusively call the Hofburg—the former imperial residence in Vienna); the Schoenbrunn castle; and the Belvedere Castle.  Each one was completely majestic. The castles and the gigantic gardens behind each of them lived up to every expectation that I had about Vienna. I’m entirely infatuated with the gardens, and I’m fairly certain I could spend a whole day sitting on one of the benches near one of the fountains just reading a book and watching people go by. The landscaping is always flawless and the view of the castle or the surrounding is city is always breathtaking. The inside of the castles usually has the same effect. However, Josephine and Adeline were only really interested with Sisi, so we passed rather quickly through all of the other historical rooms and art displays. I’m not a huge history buff, but I do find most artifacts and architecture that originated in time periods long ago very interesting.  I was completely in love with each one we went to, and I often wished that Josephine and Adeline weren’t quite so “go, go, go” all the time so that we could have taken a little more time to just marvel at the ancient architecture and the amazing history that surrounded us at every turn, but I took some great pictures, bought a few nice post cards, and tried to commit as much of the scenery to my permanent memory as possible.

·         Other interesting things that we saw:
o   Saint Stephen’s cathedral which became a well-known landmark for us since it was between the center of town and our usual tram stop. The steeples stretched so high into the sky that it literally didn’t appear to be real, especially on the days when the sky was bright blue and there wasn’t a single cloud to be seen—which was pretty much every day. It looked as if it had just been painted onto a deep blue canvas instead of constructed with bricks and bare hands.
o   Saint Michaels church where we saw a wedding rehearsal between a British man and an American woman. The church was drowning in white and purple flowers for the wedding and it looked and smelled wonderful.
o   City Hall-On top of being a very large, ancient, and gorgeous building, it was the gathering spot for pretty much all of the active people in Vienna at night because it was where they held the nightly film festival. Right in front of the city hall was a gigantic projector screen surrounded by many folding chairs and bleachers that had been temporarily arranged for the film festival. Behind the seating arrangements was an area filled with food/drink tents and tables for people to eat/drink/socialize around. There was food from all over the world—including Australia J The first afternoon we had a crepe (and I had a Radler: half beer/half lemonade—it’s very popular in the summertime in Germany). We went in one night to watch a Norah Jones concert on the screen, but Josephine and Adeline decided that it wouldn’t be very entertaining, so we had some Weiner schnitzel (which was absolutely delicious) with some potato salad (which was the best potato salad I’ve ever had) and then headed off to get some ice cream and head home. The last night we were in Vienna, the Nutcracker was being shown on the screen, so we went in to see that, however the same conclusion as the last time was drawn, so we got some food again before leaving. This time, I tried kangaroo from the Australian stand—I never had the chance to try it when I was actually in Australia, so I decided now was a good a time as any. Conclusion: it tasted very similar to a steak with only a slightly different flavor, but it was really, very good, and now I can add one more “exotic” food to my list!
o   A war memorial (I’m not sure which war it was memorializing), with a beautiful fountain that was positioned just right so that half a rainbow formed on the side. It was beautiful. Josephine, who knows a little German, read the engraving, but I don’t remember what it said. I just remember that it was gorgeous.
o   The State Park (stadtpark)- it reminded me somewhat of Saint Stephens Green in Dublin—just a bit sunnier. It had beautiful landscaping, and a clock on the side outlined with bright, colorful flowers. Small statues of famous people from Vienna were constructed in little circles of grass throughout the park.
o   Prater Park—an amusement park just a bit outside of the city. You pay for each ride individually. It wasn’t heavily populated at all. In fact, there weren’t even lines for any of the rides. It was an interesting place. We didn’t stop to ride any rides, we just wandered through to get a glimpse at the park.

·         On the second to last day of our trip, we took a bus to Bratislava in Slovakia to do a bit of exploring. The ride only took an hour and (unlike our usual routine) we had been ready early so that we had enough time to see the city. We ate the lunches we had packed on a set of huge stone steps that led up to the giant cathedral of the city and then we set off to explore. Bratislava is an adorable little village with five or six main landmarks that are all in walking distance. The city center included a small circle of wooden stands where people were selling locally made items (like jewelry, honey, and linen) as well as souvenirs), little cobblestone walkways lined with cafes, pubs, and shops, and historical buildings such as the previous city hall and the cathedral. On the outside of the city center was the castle situated on a fairly large hill. The outer wall of the castle provided a beautiful panoramic of the surrounding cities below. We also ventured to the present City Hall and the Presidential Palace. For the first time on the trip, we stopped at a little pub to enjoy a drink, a nice view of the quaint town, and the slow, relaxing environment. Josephine and Adeline both had a Blackberry smoothie, and I enjoyed a nice glass of Hoegarrden :) We spent some time at the local stands (actually too much time…and too much money) and I got some nice gifts. No mom, I am not going to say what I bought…You’ll just have to wait and see :) Around 5, we headed back to the bus stop.

·         On our last day in Vienna, we stopped at a little café named Demel where we could watch the pastry chefs through a large window as they were preparing different cakes and pastries. That was really neat, and the cake I had was delicious…as always! Then we did some shopping along the HUGE main drag where there are hundreds of restaurants and shops and even more tourists. I said we did “some” shopping…actually, we did “a lot” of shopping. But, we made ourselves feel better by factoring in that we had saved a lot of money by making most of meals at home and by not spending much money on alcoholic beverages at bars. Maybe it isn’t very logical reasoning, but it worked for us :)

·         On Thursday we didn’t have to leave for the airport until around 3, so we went into town to finish up our souvenir shopping and to try a meal from Nordsee—the fast food fish restaurant that we saw everywhere in Vienna. It was….well, pretty much like a fish sandwich from McDonalds.

·         We arrived at the airport extra early, so we sat at a café and enjoyed our final Sachertorte (and I enjoyed my final Radler in Vienna). 

·         Adeline’s dad picked us up from the airport, and I another very large wave of nostalgia rush over me and as he drove us back to Paris. My first time on this drive from CDG to Josephine’s house is a memory I don’t think I will ever, ever forget…mostly because I haven’t ever reached a level of anxiety comparable to that day ever in my life (I partially blame my dad for making watch Taken before I left for France the first time). Anyway, I was supposed to have a working phone when I landed in Paris—at least, that is what Sprint had told me—and I was supposed to call Josephine when I landed so that she knew to be expecting me at her house. Well my flight landed later than it was supposed  (but still very early in the morning—Like 7, I think) to start, then I quickly found that my phone wasn’t working at all so I wouldn’t be getting in touch with Josephine. Then, I attempted to find a taxi—I at least had Josephine’s address and knew (from Google maps) that it was next to a Pizza Hut, but unlike America, every building in Paris is connected to the one next to it and it is nearly impossible to distinguish between shops and houses…in addition, there are gates in front of many of the buildings which makes every “house” look the same. So, my first ride from CDG to Paris was not necessarily relaxing. When the taxi driver pulled up along a random curve and parked the car, I figured that was cue to get out. I had succumbed to the fact that I would be stuck sitting on a sidewalk in Paris with my huge red suitcase, backpack, and duffle bag stuffed to the brim waiting for Josephine to return home in the hopes that one of us would recognize the other based off of the small amount of facebook contact we had had. Instead, as I was stumbling out the car with my backpack and duffle bag, some well-dressed, middle-aged lady standing in front of a gate to what looked like an apartment building said, “Brittany?” (pronounced “Bree-tah-nee). I had no idea who she was, but she looked nice enough, so I replied. Turns out, she was Josephine’s mom (the whom I’ve grown to love so much) and she had just been leaving for work when she saw the cab pull up, and since the cabs usually stop at the end of the street, she thought this cab was most likely carrying me (the strange, young, confused, anxious, jet-lagged American girl who had just left home for the first time by herself). I’ll never forget the relief I felt when she told me she was Josephine’s mother. Forgetting the ‘bises’ (the kisses on each cheek that is the standard French ‘hello’), I wrapped my arm around her in a huge bear hug. I think she got the point that I was happy to meet her. 

Driving back along the same roads that I taken two long years ago reminded me of this original encounter with the Starons and the many, many more that were to transpire after. It amazes me how quickly you can become attached to some people even when you see them so little. I met the Starons two years ago, spent a month living with them, spent a day in Cincinnati shopping with Josephine when she visited last year, and then ended up going to Vienna for a week with her this summer. I realize the rarity of a situation such as this, and I’m so thankful to be a part of such an uncommon and wonderful circumstance. 

"Remember, the greatest gift is not found in a store nor under a tree, but in the hearts of true friends."
-Cindy Lew


mercredi 24 juillet 2013

My Favorite Home Away From Home




“If you are lucky enough to have lived in Paris as a young man, then wherever you go for the rest of your life it stays with you, for Paris is a moveable feast.” –Ernest Hemingway

Well, now I will begin my attempt to fill you in on everything I did over the past two weeks—which is most likely more than I did during the first four weeks of my trip combined!! Fortunately, I took little notes along the way so that I could remember everything I wanted to say. I think, I’ll probably just recap the trip using these bullet points and add in a few feelings and thoughts! Hopefully you’re interested enough to read the majority of it J

So, it all started with me arriving very early to the train station in Montpellier, thinking I had gone to the wrong train station because I couldn’t find information for the train to Paris, asking the person at the information desk for help, finding out that the final destination of my train was Lille Flandres (not Paris) which would explain why I couldn’t find it on the screen, sitting down to wait for my train next to a very cute guy who asked to borrow my phone charge to which I agreed because….well, because why not, and eventually finding the train with no problem and boarding. It was a double decker train, which I haven’t been on before, and I was on the top level which was nice because I had a really nice view of the scenery. I’m slightly obsessed with the TGV (high speed train in Europe) because 1. It runs all over Europe so it makes traveling fairly easy; 2. It is usually the same price or sometimes cheaper than flying; 3. It is not necessary to go through a security check at the train station, so it isn’t necessary to arrive 2 hours early—in fact, you can’t even board the train more than 20 minutes early; 4. Train rides are one of the most relaxing activities for me (right up there with going to the beach and grocery shopping….seriously); 5. The scenery is much more interesting on a train than on a plane! 

On this particular train ride, I was able to see the beautiful countryside of France which included fields of lavender and vast vineyards with a backdrop of mountains and hills. I slept for a little while, but I was too anxious about missing my stop at Charles de Gaulle to sleep for too long. 

From Charles de Gaulle, I had to take the RER B into Paris—the same line that I took to work every day when I lived in Paris two years ago!!! It felt so familiar and natural. The only difference was that the subway cars seemed to have been renovated because they were much nicer than I remember them being two years ago. On the ride, I saw a kid wearing a Saint Louis Rams hat!!! Of all the Saint Louis sports teams, that would be the one that I would least expect to see in France!!

When I change lines at Gare du Nord in Paris, I was quickly reminded of how hectic, crazy, busy, and fast-moving the subway stations in Paris are. Quite a contrast to the speed of life in Montpellier! A lot of things began to look very familiar to me though, and in no time at all, I had readjusted to the “Parisian lifestyle”—a much faster adjustment than my first time in Paris ;). 

Not only did I remember the color and the number of the line I needed to get to Josephine’s house, but I also remembered which stop I needed as well….yes, I was very, very proud of myself. Though it has been two years, when I exited the subway station and climbed the stairs to the busy road above, I felt as if it was only yesterday that I was returning home from work to this same street. Josephine came to meet me at the stop which gave me a very intense bout of deja-vu since it was the same stop where she had met me when I came to visit her for the first time from Orsay-Ville. Ohhhhhh, how wonderful it was to see her again! I hadn’t even realized just how much I missed her and her family (and Paris in general) until I began walking with her back to her house and the memories came flooding back to me as if a flood gate had just been broken. And the sensation only intensified as she opened the gate to her house and then the little side door at the bottom of the three steps which leads into “my” room in the basement. Despite a few rearrangements, it looked the same cozy, welcoming, homey, happy room that I remembered. 

I had a second intense episode of déjà vu when her mom arrived home and asked me how it felt to be home!!!! Words cannot describe. I just adore the whole family—their kindness, their friendliness, their humor, and their concern for me. The only people that make me feel more taken of than the Starons is my own immediate family! We had dinner at home that night (the whole “family”) and it was so enjoyable. They all have the same sense of humor as I do and so the entire meal was spent laughing and joking while also catching up on the past two years…none of us could believe that it had been so long!

In the morning, we woke bright and early and had a quick breakfast before Josephine’s dad took us (Me, Josephine, and Josephine’s friend, Adeline) to the airport. It was a short trip since the Starons live in the very north of Paris and CDG airport is just north of Paris. I was surprised at how simple it was to not only get through the registration line but also to get through security…short and sweet. I was also really surprised by the fact that Adeline was able to buy me a ticket with just my name and I just had to show a valid form of ID at the desk to check-in…….I don’t think anything is that easy in the U.S. However, the greatest part of the whole encounter was going through the process with the company of some friends because it has been forever since I have had company while traveling and it truly makes all the difference. I was not nearly as anxious or stressed…in fact, I was anxious or stressed at all!!!

 “What matters in life is not what happens to you, but what you remember and how you remember it.” -Gabriel Garcia Marquez